Man Up
Why this pick
A fast, funny one-night connection driven by mismatched expectations, bruised romantic histories, and unusually easy adult chemistry rather than glossy rom-com wish fulfilment.
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IF THIS ONE STAYED WITH YOU
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01 / THE STORY
In 2002, Lainey causes a scene in a dorm at Columbia University. Taking pity on her as she is about to be kicked out by security, Jake claims her as his guest. He learns that Lainey was there in order to lose her virginity to her T.A., Matt, who Jake thinks is the most boring guy in the world. Lainey eventually realizes that Jake is also a virgin, and the two lose their virginity to each other.
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02 / FACES IN THE FRAME

Jake

Lainey Dalton

Xander

Kara

Paula

Naomi

Danica
George