45 Years
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A quietly devastating, superbly observed portrait of a long marriage, using small routines and withheld feelings to create the same intimate, actor-led emotional pressure.
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01 / THE STORY
Although a devoted couple, empty nesters Kay and Arnold Soames (Meryl Streep and Tommy Lee Jones) are in need of (in Kay's opinion) help to reignite the spark in their marriage. They have slept in separate rooms for years since their youngest child went off to college, and forgo any physical affection. One day Kay (who works as a Coldwater Creek employee) tells Arnold (a partner in an Omaha accounting firm) she has paid for them to undergo a week of intense marriage counseling with Dr. Bernie Feld (Steve Carell) in a coastal resort town in Maine. Arnold, a creature of plodding, unimaginative routine, denies their marriage is in trouble.
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02 / FACES IN THE FRAME

Kay

Arnold Soames

Dr. Bernie Feld

Eileen, Kay's Friend

Molly, Their Daughter

Karen, The Bartender

Dana, Doctor Feld's Wife
Brad, Their Son