SoulMate
Why this pick
Like Us and Them, it looks back on formative intimacy with aching hindsight, using an emotionally direct, intimate style to show how love and friendship are changed by time and adult compromises.
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IF THIS ONE STAYED WITH YOU
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SIMILAR PICKS / A PERSONAL CONNECTION
Why this pick
Like Us and Them, it looks back on formative intimacy with aching hindsight, using an emotionally direct, intimate style to show how love and friendship are changed by time and adult compromises.
Why this pick
A grounded young romance tested by money, distance and everyday pressure. Its patient accumulation of small sacrifices carries the same bittersweet sincerity and social realism as Us and Them.
Why this pick
Its gentle, nostalgic Chinese coming-of-age mood and tender focus on fragile connection echo the emotional openness of Us and Them, with an emphasis on the moments people struggle to hold onto.
Why this pick
An essential predecessor to Us and Them’s urban-romance ache: two migrants form a lasting bond while ambition, migration and circumstance repeatedly reshape what they can mean to one another.
Why this pick
Though more comic and family-focused, it shares a compassionate, emotionally layered approach to regret, memory and the versions of love people carry after a relationship has ended.
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01 / THE STORY
Ten years ago, on a train home during the busy Spring Festival travel period, fate brings Xiaoxiao and Jianqing together. Like many young couples, they meet, fall in love, and strive to make it work, but eventually, the harsh realities of life make them drift apart. Ten years later, they run into each other again. Will they make the most of this second chance and rekindle what they once lost?
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02 / FACES IN THE FRAME

Lin Jianqing

Fang Xiaoxiao