The Herd
Why this pick
Its tense, contained approach to domestic violence echoes Take My Eyes’ focus on coercive control and the emotional labour of surviving someone who alternates menace with remorse.
A FILM WORTH A CLOSER LOOKTHE FEATURE PRESENTATION
IF THIS ONE STAYED WITH YOU
Keep the feeling.
SIMILAR PICKS / A PERSONAL CONNECTION
Why this pick
Its tense, contained approach to domestic violence echoes Take My Eyes’ focus on coercive control and the emotional labour of surviving someone who alternates menace with remorse.
Why this pick
For the raw social realism and compassionate attention to a woman navigating institutions, trauma, and a damaging partner without losing her agency.
Why this pick
Shares the unflinching domestic intensity and empathy for a mother protecting her children, while grounding personal violence in a vividly observed family and community.
Why this pick
Its angry, humane drama about women resisting institutional and personal control should suit the desire for emotionally forceful realism and hard-won dignity.
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01 / THE STORY
Pilar, a meek housewife living in Toledo, Spain, gathers a few belongings one night and flees her apartment with her seven-year-old son, Juan. They find shelter with Pilar's sister, Ana, who is to marry her Scottish live-in boyfriend soon. Pilar's husband, Antonio, tries to make her change her mind, but she is tired and fearful of his abusive behavior. Determined to start a new life on her own, Pilar sends her sister to retrieve her belongings from the apartment she shared with Antonio. Once there, Ana discovers through medical bills that her sister has also been physically abused by Antonio. When he arrives, Ana confronts him.
02 / FACES IN THE FRAME

Aurora

Carmen

Ana
Pilar

Antonio
John